Sexual Energy is Creative Energy
“The artist’s experience lies so unbelievably close to the sexual. . .that the two phenomena are really just different forms of one & the same longing & bliss.” —Rainer Maria Rilke Sex is more...
View ArticleYou Cannot Be in Your Shame & in Your Orgasm Simultaneously
Note: This post was inspired by an image I came across on Facebook. I cannot find the original owner, so I don’t want to share it on my blog (out of respect for the artist). But you can view the...
View ArticleWhy You Must Never Fake Your Orgasm
I want to talk about the less-than-glamourous side of the sex. The side that perplexes, thwarts, & strains hope from us as sexual beings. Let me set the scene. . . Your heart has sent out a special...
View ArticleQ: What Would You Do if You Could Live in the Body of Another Gender for a Day?
(via) Occasionally, I’ll ask you a bold question & invite you to divulge your thoughts in the comment section. Today’s burning question: What would you do if you could live in the body of another...
View ArticleI Know Who I Am! Echos Within My Cave of Solitude
For over four months, I have been lying fallow, resting my weary soul to pay close attention to my desires & my dreams. In this process, I have been diving into more soulful, spiritual things—gods...
View ArticleTrue Friends Ask How the Sex is
I have sat in circles with women; danced, dined, & prayed with women. Women who I call sisters, women who are sisters, both by blood & by spiritual family of origin. With the women I have...
View ArticleToday: Let’s Talk Sabbaticals, Sensuality, & Self-Love
// UPDATE: You can now watch the recorded workshop here! This past October, I took a four month hiatus from my work to turn inward. I witnessed & realized many things while in my state of...
View ArticleDear Men: You are Not “Horny Bastards”
“[Men] . . . you are Shiva, the Divine Masculine: unperturbable, totally loving, fully present, & all-pervading.” —David Deida You’re always horny! You just want to get in my pants. God, is sex all...
View ArticleWhen Self-Love Hurts the Ones You Love
As I continue to grow in my self-love practice, I have grown more accustomed to taking the subtle whispers of my longing heart seriously. I have seen the importance of honoring myself by saying No when...
View ArticleHonoring the Darkness
To sit in the illumination of the sun is easy. It warms the skin, its streams are pleasant & becoming. Everyone looks like an angel when golden rays of light are peering down on them. But to sit in...
View ArticleI Am Not Bisexual
There are words in my language that I do not like. Words that, when said, grate on my nerves as if I had been cut open & had tiny bits of shrapnel put inside my wound. One of these words is...
View ArticleFour of My Favorite Sexuality Books — & I’m Giving Them Away
In my office there is a bookcase that belongs completely to me, & on its shelves it stores all of my favorite reads relating to sex & sexuality, feminism, erotica, self-discovery, & other...
View ArticleSensual Experiences of an Empath on a Bus Full of Rain-Soaked Humans
“Breathe next to me. And I will capture a piece of your soul along with mine.” —Marikit dR. Camba I’m on the #15 bus. It is filled to the steaming brim with people trying to get to their homes on the...
View ArticleHow to Love Your Yoni
(via) I was reading the newspaper a few weeks ago & saw an ad on the outer corner of a page with the headline “Love Your Lady Parts.” Reading that, I became instantly filled with joy that there...
View ArticleOn Desire & How to Harmonize Yourself With Your Hungers
“Desire is the engine of creation. Desire is an evolutionary impulse. Desire leads the way home.” —Danielle LaPorte We live in a culture where we glorify & congratulate those who follow the...
View ArticleSex Love Liberation is Reborn!—A Celebration of Space, Ease, & Transition
“Perfection is static, & I am in full motion.” —Anaïs Nin Welcome to my new digital home. I hope it feels like a breath of warm, shimmery air for you. I have gone through some deep, personal...
View ArticleA Portrait of an Orgasm
DLP said recently that we need to talk about orgasm more. Here, I will tell you about mine. My orgasm is the fuel in my tank, the mediator between me & my lover’s quarrels, the inspiration for all...
View ArticleA New Year of Living with Sex, Love, & Liberation + 26 Birthday Mantras
On Sunday, I turned 26. Usually on my birthday, I wake up & the new age smacks me in the face abruptly & I’m left reeling for the next few weeks at the new-realized truth that I am another year...
View ArticleWhy We Decided to Close Our Relationship & Go Back to Monogamy
For nearly three years, my partner & I have been seeking to merge our strictly monogamous relationship with what we have found most intriguing: polyamory. It all started with a confession on his...
View ArticleThe Emergence of the Divine Feminine & 11 Ways to Embody it in This Moment
All around me, I am seeing women who are making empowering choices, women who are coming into deep love of self & radical acceptance of their bodies, women who are changing the way they work in the...
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